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I was catching up with an assistant high school admin friend who has several new student interviews. He said to get a pulse on the student priorities he asks what the student is looking forward to at this new school and what they will miss from the school they are coming from. The answer one of the students gave was “ imagine you are the only one of two ( gender) , in your grade….. and the two of you don’t really get along with each other”. In a nutshell the student is hoping to come to a larger Christian school for a higher probability of making meaningful friends.

My thoughts were that it’s quite the catch 22…. The student could be trading same gender friendship starvation for pecking order anxiety. Time will tell. It really is a hard topic. As adults we hope the best for students but by high school it really is harder for the influence of an adult to influence the kind of classmate students will be for each other when adults are not present. This I think also can support benefits of investing in the younger years when character formation becomes a part of who the student is vs. a list of behavior exhibiting compliances in front of faculty.

These thoughts have led me to wonder what the stats are for how students would answer regarding friendships in Covenant schools vs Mission based schools, smaller size schools vs larger sized schools and High School students who transitioned to Christian education later in high school vs experiencing since elementary. It seems these states could separate the experience outcomes with peers a bit. Very interesting study for sure as we keep striving to serve students well.

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